Before you advise or teach someone something (share ideas or experiences or technique), the person does not know and is ignorant or blur. When you open the big mouth, he knows. You tell, so I know. When someone knows already and get it easy, they will think hey it's not that difficult and they know and it doesn't seem like a big deal. So, how do you tell and how do you make it worth its weight in gold. Whatever experiences shared and taught to others is worth its weight in gold for someone who doesn't know.
Between the thin line of I don't know what not or how about this | You tell, so I know and it seems so easy. Remember it is a thin line and when the other person knows already, he may react "Uh-oh, so easy. Nothing speacial. Yeah, I know. What's the big deal?" But, before you tell him, he could be banging his head against the wall for the ignorance, so how do you make your idea stand out big time. Talk about it deeply. Peel the onion skin one by one. Phase out the discussions over several sessions. Make the listener pay each time. Ground and grind the issue. Make it difficult to learn.
Break it into different sub-topics. Drill down.
Do not be afraid to elaborate so others understand. It is better to paint a story of comprehension rather than give one line factual statement.
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