Persistence counts...

Persistence counts... a lot. To succeed, you have to persist. Persist in pursuing your idea. Talk about it. 

Repeat.

When you repeat it loud and long enough. Soon, people will  start to accept your suggestion, idea or proposal.

Get a partner...i mean support

You want to get support for what you say or your ideas in front of your colleagues/co-workers or friends. Bring along a partner, a friend, a sidekick. When you have support, people are hesitant to talk you down because you appear strong and not alone.

Giving advise, sharing or discussing....

What is the best way to learn something...or enhance your understanding on a subject. It is to share the knowledge. Advise. Share. Discuss. Advising others is therapeutic. Advising others - what goes round comes back. You will remember the most of the good advice you shared. If it is good, chances are you will adopt it for your own good use. But, beware, so as not to be seen as show-off. There are some stupid people (because they don't like to hear others give advice, they may think they are smart, or just think negatively of others' kind intention) be subtle, so that you're not seen as a smart aleck or over-bearing. 

Giving advise sharing sometimes do bring good ideas to you. Something you never thought about. The ideas might come when you are talking about it. So, if you're stuck and looking to solve a problem, talk about it and see the ideas coming to you... Another advantage, people listening to you can give you feedback and that will lead you to think of different angles you never thought off. So, good luck in looking for ideas and building up your own soul.


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